"You want to get the fish to jump into your boat."
You won't be successful if you don't choose your own paths and make something of yourself. Your goal is to make good things happen for yourself.
I enjoyed hearing the section of Professor Feinberg's lecture discussing the roles and importance of the leaders and their followers. We came to the conclusion that the followers are as equally important as the leaders. Without loyal followers, the leaders would be nothing.
We did a leadership exercise in class. We each had to finish the sentence, " I should follow you because..." I finished the sentence with, "...I will help you do your best and motivate you to succeed while giving you the utmost respect and attention you deserve." Professor Feinberg then selected a few individuals to stand up and complete their version of the sentence. Some were successful, while others were not. The followers want to hear what you would do to help them, and how following you would benefit them. This exercise taught me that people will only follow you if you give them a compelling and convincing reason to.
At the end of class, Professor Feinberg asked the students who wanted to be a leader to come to the front of the classroom. I hesitated. I quickly regretted my decision...
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